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Sadly Myrna, this was related to the rugby tournament. The child’s father played for a team from Bend. However, I would not wish to blame either Reno Zephyrs (the host team), Bend Roughriders (the accused’s team) or even the Mustang Ranch, who may very well have saved the child’s life (for the record, the Ranch was hosting the tournament’s awards ceremony and post-tourney party). Rather, this was a stupid thing done by an otherwise reasonably intelligent man. Neither my wife or I know the accused, but we were at the tournament, visiting with rugby friends of ours, including an old teammate of mine (not the accused) who now plays for Bend.

Oh yes, only the fault of the individual involved. Ruggers are nothing if not family oriented. At least the ones I grew up with.

So are you blaming the sport?

Should the president of Zephyrs be held accountable?

You’re stereotyping, Myrna. Ruggers are indeed a crazy bunch, but since I’m a rugger, I’m insulted by your insinuation. For the record, I’ve been happily married for 14 years, helping raise my wife’s three children and being the only real father figure my stepdaughter’s two grandchildren have ever had after their biological father abandoned them. And I know more ruggers than you do, and more of them are decent family men (and women) than you could possibly imagine.

Your insinuation is tantamount to blaming the CEO of Ford for every person that dies in a car crash.

I’ll be expecting that apology shortly, Myrna.

I actually wasn’t being sarcastic about family oriented thing. I thought my use of the affection term “rugger” would’ve made that clear.

Sorry, but your attempt at humor was at best, in poor taste. Rugby is a sport that is far too often considered either a game of violent uber-macho drunkards, or the gayest sport of all, and is generally looked down upon by those with no understanding. Those of us who play admit that there’s plenty of both in our sport. But we welcome the gay clubs, like my friends with Seattle Quake and Portland Avalanche. And while rugby is most certainly the most un-PC sport of all, we do have our limits.

Your response to my original post could’ve easily been as an attack upon the sport, just as I saw it. Apparently you do know a little about the game, so perhaps I overreacted. However, you exercised poor judgement in your attempt at humor. Sometimes being snarky only makes the situation worse.

But I’ll take that as an apology.

Well - the rugby word has it that this guy was fingered somehow - that it was actually a traveling working lady who belonged to the child. The Ranch might have saved the child’s life by reporting. Bummer for ruggers-like they have a hard enough time lending dignity to this ruffian sport…AND…there are a couple of sad tales here. 1)That maybe the wrong person was nailed with ruggers getting a bum rap, and 2) that a woman with a two year old child needs to “work” in a profession that actually has a rap. I’ve been around rugby all my life - married with children - as well as played the sport. My kids were raised on and off the sidelines. MANY of my best associations have been with male and female ruggers. They tend to be educated and/or professionals (especially the older ones) with families who care for and about each other and love the sport. “A mild and comely sport for genteel ladies” was on my t-shirt…”Give Blood Play Rugby” was on my husband’s.

Take five force ten–jeez. That comment was completely serious. so there was no attempt at humor.

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